Too much vagina for me!
There is one thing in life I never thought I could get enough of, and that’s vagina. However, people change, and apparently I’m one of those people, and I think I have had just about enough vagina. The Vagina Monologues are apparently some feminist inspired readings about some self-centered and gold-plated-pussy impressions that some local girls/women have about their private parts.
I did buy tickets to this show, this play, this reading, and I am mentioned on their website as one of the donating patrons (I wish they would have actually linked to me) or I probably wouldn’t rant about this). However, after viewing their website, I sense a hostility towards vaginal penetration that goes beyond the ordinary…like a woman is an equal in any sexual encounter.
I only have to remember when I was growing up and watching a rooster chase a hen around the yard. Sure, she would run for very life, as if a cat or dog was after her to snatch her very life, but when the rooster finally caught her he would simply pin her neck to the ground with his beak and have his way with her, until he was finished. Once caught, the hen had zero say so in what happened.
I’ve done a little animal husbandry too, with horses and cattle and there’s much the same effect. You choose a female you wish to mate with a particular male and then you put them in an enclosed environment, perhaps even tying the female to a post until the male is done with her.
Now, of course humans are a bit different. Human females have their own minds and I would never suggest that a woman should be compelled to have sex with some male she does not herself choose. People are different from chickens, cattle, and horses.
However, we are not so different once the sexual encounter begins. Some women are sensitive and expect to be treated like ladies throughout the sexual encounter, other women enjoy being dominated my a strong male.
A simple test to determine how your female partner responds lovemaking is to doggie-style and put one foot on her head and pin her head to the pillow. If she moans loader and enjoys it, then she is one that likes to be dominated in bed. If she shouts out, “what the hell are you doing, get off my you oaf!”, then she is the type that most feminist are made of.
Women are the weaker sex physically, and I think evolutionarily speaking, there’s a reason for this and that sexual domination of the female is something that females appreciate. Women expect a man to take charge in bed.
A totally different aspect is the victimization of women in events such as war, where prevailing soldiers generally kill the opposing men and then victimize and even mutilate the women survivors. I have no experience with this and would wish to refrain from commenting on it, but for myself, if I were a victor soldier, I would hope that any action I had with any enemy female would be consensual.
My greatest pleasure in being with a woman is not in reaching orgasm, but in pleasing my mate. If orgasm was all I was after I would simply masturbate. There is no greater pleasure in life than to look at a woman well-and-freshly fucked and have her smile and ask “when can I see you again”
March 30th, 2008 at 05:59
Hello brother Michael, i\’m Darling Gguilar from the Order of the Amaranth, and a Job\’s Daughter also. my sister, Honey, one of the Job\’s Daughters who sold the reservation cards to you for the March 8 show, did mention that you had a site, but we didn\’t know the website so i couldn\’t link ur site to our site. anyway, i just read this blog today, and perhaps, when you viewed our site previously, there was nothing there yet…i haven\’t had the time to update and post some of the pictures or any other information because at that time we had a few activities yet. but if u check back now, you could find more information than before…and i would also like to inform you that aside from THE VAGINA MONOLOGUES, we will be doing A MEMORY A MONOLOGUE A RANT AND A PRAYER…similar but you will not hear the word vagina ever spoken, because a different set of monologues will be used….so maybe you would like to watch that instead
We are actually doing this, celebrating VDAY, an international movement to stop violence against women and girls, not to dominate or to become equals of men— but to empower those women who have been victims or survivors of violence against women and girls…and of course part of the permission granted to us by Eve Ensler is to stick with whatever is on the script, therefore we cannot do anything about the words used in THE VAGINA MONOLOGUES, the book Ensler wrote, otherwise we wouldn\’t be granted the permission to stage the shows under VDAY.
The beneficiaries of this cause:
1.) TEODORA: Empowering Women through the Arts
2.) 3 female students of Balulang National High School
Next year, we will partner with Touch Foundation and help educate people about RA 7262 VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN & CHILDREN side by side with the staging of the plays under VDAY, and hopefully as we are able to raise awareness we will also be able to raise funds to build a safehouse or a shelter for the victims and survivors of VAWC. Becasue it is a sad fact that most of Touch Foundation\’s survivors do not have a safehouse, because it is not available at the moment.
I would like to thank you for the donation and i will be sending you information and an invitation as to when we will stage MMRP…i hope to see you and Marissa then.
Blessed be!!
April 1st, 2008 at 12:10
Yes, I might prefer the MMRP, more than the Vagina Monologues, because the short excerp I heard from that made me uncomfortable. My contribution was to support Job’s Daughters, not necessarily any particular endeavor they were involved in.
I do believe in the 1 to 1 equality of men and women when it comes to voting, and human rights issues. I believe that there are as many women with high IQs as there are men. (However, one of my favorite jokes is “Why do doctors slap babies when they are born?” Answer: “To knock the dicks of the dumb ones.” but that does not really belay my true sentiments. It is a funny sexist joke that offends women just like some of my other favorite jokes are racist.
What I have heard is that these monologues are extremely boring. Thee one excerpt that I did hear was a bit boring but it was also intriguing in th at it referred to the victimization and mutilation of women during war time, and this was something I had never heard about before.
While I am 100% behind Job’s Daughter’s I just feel that the monologue I heard did not give credence to the very social-sexual relationship between women and men. Men are the aggressors and women are more submissive and respond best to the most dominate male in a pack. The sexual tapestry of man-woman relationships is not on even ground.
And I resent the gold-plated pussy syndrome that many females have. As if what they have to offer cannot be obtained elsewhere.
I am not a feminist and neither is my mother. She taught me that men and women have different roles in culture and in society, and that men and women are controlled not only by different hormones, but by different objectives and desires.
I am totally against non-consensual sex, and I believe the harshest punishments should be laid down upon those who victimize the weaker half of humanity. However, when a consensual sexual relationship has begun, I think that men and women take on different roles, and that women are turned on by stronger, take charge men, and that men are turned on more by subservient and submissive females.
As such, males and females play different roles in society and especially in the bedroom.
All I am suggesting is that there be a balance between the sexes based on their inherent differences, their genetic and hormonal differences, and the differences in the roles they play both in society and in the family.
I truly hope these monologues will include these differences and not just be forum to dispise the male gender.